One of the things that I have been very proud about with the making of Sexing the Transman is seeing how it has helped people feel “normal” and that sexuality is soooooo fluid. Labels are such a burden if you ask me. I think sometimes they are important and if you feel the need it is cool. I do label myself as a man but on my own terms.
Interesting how labels make us feel safe.
This is an email from a couple. He is trans and she is a cis-female lesbian. Totally awesome and proves my point. Sexuality is all about the person not the gender.
My partner and I want to thank you so much for this file.
I have been with my partner Brad since the beginning of his transition.
I am a cis-gender lesbian but watching this movie has made both of us so much more comfortable in our sexuality.
We both see ourselves as not fully male or female since I am a cross dresser but mostly a fem lesbian.
We have lived our lives believing sexuality is a continuum, that itis constantly growing, expanding, changing.
We truly love your files. Watching them just to talk or to fuck to. Thankyouso much for letting us watch, enjoy and experience sexuality in more ways.
Xoxo”